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OUR STORIES

Our stories are a narrative on reclaiming what trauma took; we tell our stories as our personal truths. They are a counter narrative to having been slowly erased and silenced.

 

With knowledge and experience we raise awareness around the traits and patterns of a Narcopath's abuse: gaslighting, manipulation, coercive control, projection, pathological lying, cognitive dissonance, triangulation and smear campaigns.

 

Through the power of words we reveal how abuse by a Narcopath can destroy your sense of self, take your freedom, identity, and basic humans rights.

 

We believe that a voice found can validate an experience, reaffirm a sense of self and empower both speaker and listener. It connects the individual to themselves and to the listener - who can learn, feel inspired, understand the experience of another and, if it resonates, feel they are not alone.

                                   

                                   If you would like to share your story

 

 

                                            

An Initiation

It’s about finding that reality as you knew it has disintegrated, and you are living in a frightening, parallel world which looks the same but feels utterly different. It’s a world in which nothing can be trusted, nothing makes sense, honesty is a pretence and love between people doesn’t exist. 

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You Never Asked

From my dad you took, without asking, hundreds more memories. You took his mobility. He no longer asks to go out, his fresh clothes lying beside his bed remain unworn. You took his final farewell to his brother as he lay dying in hospital from cancer.

First Love

He drove me out to a country lane and made me burn the picture. I was thrown. It was a bit odd. I'd never had anyone behave like this before. However, he explained that he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the thought that anyone else had even thought about me. 

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Mindf*ck

Why is everyone saying the same things even though they are not true? And why is this happening all over the world?

I am not actually joking when I say I am worried that by the time I leave uni the world will be a place that is not worth living in.

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My 'Lightbulb' Moment

When we got married I had a very uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I told myself it was just butterflies. Once I fell pregnant and gave up my flying career to become a full-time mother, the real monster raised his ugly head.

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Young Reformer

Before I worked with Paul I had never met a psychopath, at least not knowingly. If you had asked me what psychopaths were like I would have described the cliches we see in films like Hannibal Lecter in The Silence of the Lambs... I had no idea that a psychopath can seem, until you get to really know them, completely normal.

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A Legacy

The incessant and deeply irresponsible fear mongering by governments and the media have taught a generation of children that just being around other people is dangerous. This has been done for a virus that poses no threat to their health, and minimal threat to the health of anyone who isn’t already clinically vulnerable. Have we lost our minds?

A Life Touched

Bars of despair and hopelessness formed around me. 

Isolated, I sat alone.

A voice whispered - from a still silent place within me, that your abuse had not touched;

words floated through my subconscious, gossamer-thin, solidifying and forming - I heard them.

In some instances names have been changed.

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